Not sure if this is the right category to put it under. Just a question on the topic of revenge. How big of an issue is it with Filipina woman. My girlfriend says she does not dwell on things because if you do you then how can you move on and put it behind you. But I have her say she did something to revenge on them because they did something to her. I know in some cultures a subject cannot be laid to rest until someone has felt they were vindicated. Some will even go on for generations. I was just wondering culturally if that is the norm, or just a personal choice.