Hey, Jen!

Superoso is right, it's hard to explain it to you in a few words. When I met my wife for the very first time, it was through chat. We chatted for hours every day and really got to know each other. I would say it was what I call "old/traditional values" that seemed to practically ooze :lol from her that made me want to be with her. She is kind, understanding, respectful, and most importantly non-judgmental. She accepted me for who and what I was without any reservations. Other girls had many defects! Some were scammers like you've read about so much on this website, others were willing to do and say anything to snare me.

But I would say that the thing that "melted" my heart was the fact that she was the only one that had the ability to (without seeming to) make me want to be a better man, a man more deserving of my angel's approval.

Hope this helps,

rdntknight, soft nut in a hard shell :evil