I am sorry to hear about your stress reaching that level. As long as societies continue to treat stress by increasing the coping mechanism of individuals while doing nothing about the rampant underlying causes I do not see things improving. We shall be like the frogs in the classical experiment, coping with progressively hotter water until they died. What we have to do is cool the water, not train the frogs to endure the heat.

The early years of marriage to an immigrated Filipina are full enough of misunderstandings and concerns without having work problems as well. It might pay to go for a job where you will be reasonably content for a while and sacrifice a few dollars if necessary.